The words here are about my life as the wife of a now retired Soldier. I live on a small ranch in Texas, and my experiences here craft the words I use to express my life. The sacrifices, challenges, and the deeply satisfying rewards of being the wife of such a man influence them as well. I live in a beautiful and peaceful place, and it is great solace and comfort when I face life and the challenges of a complicated and stressed world. So I have titled my writings "From the Ranch."
Saturday, April 20, 2013
I Too Have Been to the Mountain...
I am beginning a series of articles of great importance to every American, to every citizen of the world, to every person who values peace, and to every person who strives to live an honorable life. I will be speaking about a specific miscarriage of justice within the United States Military, which is not the only place where it is found, but where as a nation and a people, we can least tolerate it. It isn't a new problem, it is as old as mankind, and while all crimes committed by one human being against another are despicable, as any victim of sexual trauma can tell you, this particular crime stands above others because, "all others occur without the body," while this crime is literally an invasion of the human body, and thereby the human soul becomes the most wounded part of the individual. Where and how can a person be more wounded than by the forced invasion of their body by another? Always, the perpetrator is of such an evil intent, of such an abusive a nature, that they can violently and forcibly cross the most sacred of lines, which every person instinctively knows to be wrong. These perpetrators should know the wrath of all the world, lest we encourage others. Fear of the consequences of being convicted of such an act should be the leading cause of prevention. Within the military, not enough fear exists, as too many have observed perpetrators who are never called to accountability.
There are among us true giants, we are blessed country.
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Monday, April 15, 2013
Women Who Serve
Watch this video and decide what your own responsibility is to those who serve and have served. These two women are speaking about women who have experienced sexual trauma while serving on the battlefield, and that rape was not perpetrated by the enemy, but rather by someone serving beside her. It is about the response of leadership to what happened to them, the injustice they encounter, and why. Think about how many news stories you have ever heard or seen in main stream media that are about a woman being raped while serving in Iraq or Afghanistan. This tragedy of war is seldom spoke of, even by it's victims, most of whom never receive justice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPnGLSsHHdU
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Military Sexual Trauma
So Many Women Survive Serving on the Battlefield, but Do Not Survive Their Experiences on the Battlefield
This is a video with so much information that gives insight into what the wisdom is of women in combat really is. So many Americans have no idea of how many women, daughters of our country, who have been deployed to the Global War On Terror have found themselves facing. So many things happen in combat that are never told. Tragedies such as a woman being raped by the men around her, serving beside her, members of the United States Military, are much more common place than you know... and it is your duty and responsibility to know... Many of them survive the battlefield and the threat of the enemy, but do not survive what happened to them at the hands of those they were serving beside. The tragedies of war reach so far beyond the battlefield.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDPW5icQwaA&noredirect=1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDPW5icQwaA&noredirect=1
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Military Sexual Trauma,
Support our Troops
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
OK, You Know Sometimes People Work You, Especially Children... Think Goats Too...
I have been letting Rocket out of
her pen every day to play. She doesn't really like her pen, she wants
to live on the porch. So I caved in and put a nice little basket out
with a nice soft blanket, (which she chewed a hole in the first
night...) Evidently now that no longer suits her, she has started
trying to rush past me every time I go in the house... Not going to
happen, not ever going to happen, I am not a hill billy... I think back
to the pen and her little plastic dog house... I was just trying to
watch a little CSI and fold laundry... and there was that pitiful little
face, trying to make me feel guilty.
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Rocket the Peek-a-boo-goat
The Country of Denmark Produces Such Extrodinary Human Beings
I pride myself in being a strong woman. I am made so by my faith in God's unconditional love toward me and all of mankind, the love of the most extraordinary man I have ever known, my beautiful children and grand-children, and having had parents that have always stood before me in faith, living righteous and generous lives. While I have never served, a very strong influence of service in the military by many of my family members, and others I love and consider the best among us, has always been a source of encouragement and has strengthened me. Watching them, and their uncommon courage, devotion to their country, and their willingness, always brings me personally such good things.
For four years now my husband has served with first the United States Army, and now the State Department in that Great Conflict in the Middle East. When he first left it was to be only for a year, and then the need for his particular talents and courage grew so evident to me, that even as my mind screamed within me, "not my Randy, I cannot do this another day, my heart softly spoke, if not Randy, then who can God send?" God extended Randy's service over and over. If you have never loved a Soldier personally and deeply, you can't understand the conflict one's mind and heart have to endure as you watch and support their service. Always there exists the chance they will never come home, or if they do, it will not be as they were when they left.
After this last most recent "home on leave time," I put Randy back on the plane to Iraq, my mind screaming silently in my head once again, and my heart softly whispering, "he must go." I have struggled, as always, but perhaps more this time, because he has promised this is the last time. Either the next time he leaves Texas, I will go with him, or he will not go. His word is his bond, I can completely count on that, still I have struggled the past four days.
Then last evening on facebook, my strongest support system for the last four years, I saw Buzzy Sorensen's post of tribute to a young woman from Denmark who gave her life in service to that very special homeland of hers. Buzzy referred to her as Sophia B, and posted a link to a You Tube video of tribute to her life. I clicked, and images of such beauty, such a life lived, and inspiration for my heart as those images depicting what she was willing to give flowed across the screen to the background of beautiful music. I watched, re-watched, and re-watched, and this morning my own life is once again not only manageable, but so much easier in the light of what I know of the life of Sophia B.
If you have lost someone in the Global War on Terror, and if sometimes you just can't understand the loss, why it has happened, and you can't see at this moment whether it was truly worth it, I would suggest to you that in no other context can human beings so deeply comprehend love. For as our God says, no greater love hath any man than this, that he lay down his life for a friend. I thank God for the life of Sophia B, which I would never have had any knowledge of, never had opportunity to be inspired by, encouraged by, or lifted up by, ... had she not gone to war for her country, and demonstrated the greatest love of all.
I sat on the porch last night looking up at the sky, thinking of the life of a woman of uncommon character, courage, honor and beauty, went inside and slept peacefully for the first time in three days. Thank you Sophia B!
For four years now my husband has served with first the United States Army, and now the State Department in that Great Conflict in the Middle East. When he first left it was to be only for a year, and then the need for his particular talents and courage grew so evident to me, that even as my mind screamed within me, "not my Randy, I cannot do this another day, my heart softly spoke, if not Randy, then who can God send?" God extended Randy's service over and over. If you have never loved a Soldier personally and deeply, you can't understand the conflict one's mind and heart have to endure as you watch and support their service. Always there exists the chance they will never come home, or if they do, it will not be as they were when they left.
After this last most recent "home on leave time," I put Randy back on the plane to Iraq, my mind screaming silently in my head once again, and my heart softly whispering, "he must go." I have struggled, as always, but perhaps more this time, because he has promised this is the last time. Either the next time he leaves Texas, I will go with him, or he will not go. His word is his bond, I can completely count on that, still I have struggled the past four days.
Then last evening on facebook, my strongest support system for the last four years, I saw Buzzy Sorensen's post of tribute to a young woman from Denmark who gave her life in service to that very special homeland of hers. Buzzy referred to her as Sophia B, and posted a link to a You Tube video of tribute to her life. I clicked, and images of such beauty, such a life lived, and inspiration for my heart as those images depicting what she was willing to give flowed across the screen to the background of beautiful music. I watched, re-watched, and re-watched, and this morning my own life is once again not only manageable, but so much easier in the light of what I know of the life of Sophia B.
If you have lost someone in the Global War on Terror, and if sometimes you just can't understand the loss, why it has happened, and you can't see at this moment whether it was truly worth it, I would suggest to you that in no other context can human beings so deeply comprehend love. For as our God says, no greater love hath any man than this, that he lay down his life for a friend. I thank God for the life of Sophia B, which I would never have had any knowledge of, never had opportunity to be inspired by, encouraged by, or lifted up by, ... had she not gone to war for her country, and demonstrated the greatest love of all.
I sat on the porch last night looking up at the sky, thinking of the life of a woman of uncommon character, courage, honor and beauty, went inside and slept peacefully for the first time in three days. Thank you Sophia B!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A335xNWc9HA&feature=share
The largest rose pictured in these roses from my garden is the peace rose. Sophia, here's to your life, and the peace God always gives to those who receive it.
Monday, April 8, 2013
How Many Times Do You Get a Must Read?
This is a must watch... YOU have obligations here... we all do.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKYfdO5LFDs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKYfdO5LFDs
Labels:Ranch Life, Military, Photos, Gardening,
Military Sexual Violence Conference,
PTSD,
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Support our Troops,
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I Had Burglars Last Night...
I heard noises on the porch... Got out the 9mm Glock... Peeked out the curtain... Sure enough... Burglars on the porch!!!
Note how the brave, white, barn cat shows up after I run them off!
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