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Showing posts with label Military Sexual Trauma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Military Sexual Trauma. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Contemplating Women

There is a consuming emphasis in my life right now, a focus, it concerns my own contemplation of women.  We are all so very special, each of us is unique, and humanity does not continue without us.  We are in fact, and have always been, every bit as important and essential as men.  No matter what the country, culture, history, or rights we have held in these categories of the human experience, without us, none of it would have existed or be now.


In all of my travels, as I explore the places we go, the wonders of the architecture, the art, the history, and the beauty of the nature of the area, all these things are of great interest to me. However even more so, I am interested in the people.  I wonder about the people who created the surroundings I am visiting, the people who live there now, and what their lives were and are like.  Even the beauty of nature in the location I am visiting gives me information, because it was selected in its' location, and that brings questions to my mind.  I ask myself, what brought those who first settled this place to here?  Who was the first person to make a home in this area; was it a group of people, joining resources and beginning a community?  Were they fleeing oppression, exploring and settling new territory, or seeking particular resources for some endeavor; these and more questions run through my mind fueling a search for information.


At times, basic and simple tasks of women can become anguishing in their performance, and they can do so for many reasons.  There may be natural disasters, lack of resources, health issues, and sadly, war and oppression which greatly affects all people in the efforts which are required toward the activities of daily living. 


As women we also do many other types of things.  Women have never been limited only to household artistry, we have always created businesses, ran governments, influenced the decisions of the leadership of all groups, and been the leadership in many instances.  Scientists, explorers, artists, musicians, poets, dancers, builders, farmers, politicians, (Angela Merkel is at present one of my personal heroines,) medical professionals, performers, and merchants; we have held every title, achieved success in every area.  We have always been entrepreneurs, whether selling baskets we have woven, or building empires as Oprah has done.  ( Notice, I don't even have to type her last name.)  It has never mattered the station we were born in either.  I think of Ester of Old Testament fame, born a slave, made a queen, who then saved a people.


I think of my own namesake from the Old Testament.  Deborah was, the Bible says, a prophetess, and she was the only female Judge mentioned in the Old Testament.  The following is a narrative of one of the tales of her legend, and it shows the confidence the male leadership of the day in her country held in her.

Judges 4:

Deborah and Barak

4 The Israelites again did what was evil in the sight of the Lord after Ehud had died. 2 So the Lord sold them into the hand of Jabin king of Canaan, who reigned in Hazor. The commander of his forces was Sisera who lived in Harosheth of the Nations. 3 Then the Israelites cried out to the Lord, because Jabin had 900 iron chariots, and he harshly oppressed them 20 years.
4 Deborah, a woman who was a prophetess and the wife of Lappidoth, was judging Israel at that time. 5 It was her custom to sit under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in the hill country of Ephraim, and the Israelites went up to her for judgment.
6 She summoned Barak son of Abinoam from Kedesh in Naphtali and said to him, “Hasn’t the Lord, the God of Israel, commanded you: ‘Go, deploy the troops on Mount Tabor, and take with you 10,000 men from the Naphtalites and Zebulunites? 7 Then I will lure Sisera commander of Jabin’s forces, his chariots, and his army at the Wadi Kishon to fight against you, and I will hand him over to you.’”
8 Barak said to her, “If you will go with me, I will go. But if you will not go with me, I will not go.”
9 “I will go with you,” she said, “but you will receive no honor on the road you are about to take, because the Lord will sell Sisera into a woman’s hand.” So Deborah got up and went with Barak to Kedesh. 10 Barak summoned Zebulun and Naphtali to Kedesh; 10,000 men followed him, and Deborah also went with him.
11 Now Heber the Kenite had moved away from the Kenites, the sons of Hobab, Moses’ father-in-law, and pitched his tent beside the oak tree of Zaanannim, which was near Kedesh.
12 It was reported to Sisera that Barak son of Abinoam had gone up Mount Tabor. 13 Sisera summoned all his 900 iron chariots and all the people who were with him from Harosheth of the Nations to the Wadi Kishon. 14 Then Deborah said to Barak, “Move on, for this is the day the Lord has handed Sisera over to you. Hasn’t the Lord gone before you?” So Barak came down from Mount Tabor with 10,000 men following him.
15 The Lord threw Sisera, all his charioteers, and all his army into confusion with the sword before Barak. Sisera left his chariot and fled on foot. 16 Barak pursued the chariots and the army as far as Harosheth of the Nations, and the whole army of Sisera fell by the sword; not a single man was left.


I really like that story.  Women are just like men in many ways, some women spend the efforts of their lives very honorably and wisely, others do not.  There are many great women, many ordinary women, and alas, just like men, many evil women.  Women are just as capable of dastardly deeds as men, history plainly tells us so.  As I have observed, women seem to as a whole be much better at deception and manipulation, and nothing is more dangerous and destructive as a woman given to such behavior.  Just as a good woman can make the man she pledges herself to, so she can destroy him, but to every person comes God's judgment, and He judges the same, for there is never any prejudice in Him, and He knows even the thoughts of every person.  In fact when the Bible says, "as a man thinketh," it is referring as well to women.  


No person can deny that there is and has for all time been another gender specific burden which some women encounter, and must bear for a lifetime.  Even today, women the world over, struggle for equal rights in all areas of their lives.  That is just undeniable fact.  There is no place in the world where a specific crime is not committed which most often targets women.  Sadly whenever a particularly heinous group of radicals of whatever persuasion, rises up in the world, sexual assault of the women of their enemies, is adopted as one of their war strategies.  Nothing demoralizes an army or enemy more than the sexual assault of their mothers, sisters, wives, and children.  No other crime is more personal, more devastating, or rampant in our world, it has always been so.  It occurs against individuals in every country.  In the Middle East is is one of the weapons of choice of the group known as ISIS.  Good men and women must always stand against this most brutal crime against any individual, for while women are most often the victim, men as well are assaulted.  Truthfully, this particular crime has always faced difficulties in prosecution, and this has been the case for so many reasons, the crime often remains hidden, and never knows the cleansing waters of justice, even in our own country.

A single life experience has not been the only reason my focus of contemplation has fallen lately toward women, but rather the experiences of a lifetime, both mine and those of other women I have known.  I have known so many great women, whose lives stagger my mind as I consider what they have accomplished, the difficulties they overcame, and sometimes an oppression which engaged their lives and forged them into the beautiful testimony to God which they have become.  There has been however, a single young woman of courage and beauty, and not the beauty of her outward appearance alone draws the attention, but the beauty of her heart and devotion to God, which slays my mind as I contemplate her life.  Shortly after we arrived in Germany I met her, and God quickly knit our souls together.  Some people you meet in life turn out to give you such clarity about why God took your own life down the roads that He did.  I will be writing her story, telling of her origins, telling of her family, the friends who have influenced and helped her, and the sorrow which befell her, as well as the dangerous and injurious trap she found herself held by, in a foreign country.  The story will inspire you, encourage you, and tell you about the love, compassion, and care that the Living God has for every person, even a gentle "island girl."  The story must unfold by the timetable which justice permits, for that is necessary, but each reader will find themselves living her story, and watching the glory and power of God... as they say... "real time!"

The photographic images of this blog post feature photos I took in Italy of clean laundry drying in the sun.  I love clean laundry drying in the sun, it is always a good thing, and these images greatly please me!

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

I Have Come to Know an Exceptional Young Woman


In life many times you have to deal with people who are not honest, people who will lie to you, cheat you, or otherwise do harm to you.  Those who have faced Military Sexual Trauma are especially familiar with those kinds of people.  Many times in the past, those persons who have perpetrated sexual crimes in the military have gotten away with those crimes.  Even though things are changing in this area, there are hundreds of thousands of victims for whom the changes did not come soon enough.  Their assailants remain free and unpunished, and the devastation caused by their crimes haunt everyday of the victims lives .

That is a very difficult thing for the victims of these crimes to deal with.  Someone they should have been able to trust, has betrayed and harmed them, and then the Military fails them in a system that has historically covered up the crimes of the offenders.  Anyone who tries to say that anything different was the rule, is lying.  The investigation and prosecution of Military Sexual Trauma has long been the shame of the United States Military.  I do see things changing, and I am encouraged, but there have been many who have not survived the crimes, and how those crimes were handled by the Military.

Some lives just go to pieces, and people become addicted to substances or bad choices, unable to struggle through the grief, despair, and injury.  In extreme cases, some even become homeless, not being able to deal with the PTSD, (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder,) which develops in the aftermath of their life altering ordeal.  Regardless, no one walks away from such a crime unscathed, and the road back to a normal life is long and difficult.

There are those who go to dark places and never return, and they wind up taking their own lives, unable to deal with their suffering.  There are also those who go to dark places, and with the love and support of family and friends, and professional help, make it back to the light of successful living.  I know one such young woman.

I met my friend on Facebook as a result of attending the SWAN, (Service Women's Action Network) Conference in Washington D.C. a few years back.  I have written of what happened to her, and watched her struggle from defeat to triumph.  She is now a published author, and will soon finish her degree to become a substance abuse counselor.  What once defeated her has become her power, and she will soon become a beacon for others, for whom life has dealt hard blows.  She loves horses, and many times we have discussed the special relationship that horses bring a person.  She has told me of experience with horses which have given her courage and stamina to go forward toward recovery.


I remember how angry and negative my friend was when I first met her, and I have watched as she has overcome those two things.  Not that her life is completely void of those feelings, but now they are just feelings, not life controlling handicaps. She is still facing difficulties in life, her mother has been very ill, but such things no longer send her into the dark.

There is hope of recovery for even the most painful and difficult situations life can bring to a person.  My friend is the living proof of that.  Congratulations my sweet friend, for all you have overcome, and for all you have accomplished.  I know even more success is to come!  The tragedies of your life have been made into the tools which empower you, and they are going to be a resource to help empower others.  Watch her very moving video, and buy her book, some things are worth a person's time, and listening to the story of this young woman will encourage you in your own life.


                       

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Do You Know What is a Little Scary...

To this day there has been no accounting as to what became of that tazer and billy club used to threaten...  There is a free man walking around who knows, and has access to where it is... and he fears no authority.  For some strange reason, he feels completely protected... makes one go hummm...

 Can anyone besides me see that freight train coming?



Sometimes Women Cry in the Night




Secret Tears

Once there came terror to the heart of a woman innocent,
A man with fear and intimidation, her soul did rent.

In the dark of night, in a foreign country, and alone without a friend,
She would search God's Word, and beg Him to make her torture end.

 Her cries by no human being were heard, when she first spoke out.
Never did this cause her to lose faith, or her mind her God to doubt.

Now after years those who live by honor, justice will soon render,
Not ever in her suffering did she all her hope surrender.

His own dangerous words, sent to torment and control,
Will now be read for real men to regard and behold.

His violent and vile actions too will come to light,
No longer does she stand left alone in this fight.

God is always faithful and makes a way of escape,
When the helpless to the Father their fate give, for Him to shape.

I Need to Dedicate This To a Mighty Warrior I Know...

She knows who she is...


Wednesday, January 28, 2015

What Happens When a Person is Riddled by the Army?

Someone shows up in their home with a tazer and a billy club....  No matter how much the person screams, "what are you doing here?" or their neighbor shouts, "you cannot be here!," the person's lack of knowledge that the "protective order has been rescinded," is nothing more than a source of amusement for their abuser.  The abuser CAN be there, he CAN threaten the person and their German neighbor with a tazer and a billy club... the Army says so... it isn't a crime unless he actually touches the person with the tazer, or he swings the billy club at the person...  Threatening the person, firing the tazer in the air, holding the billy club up, filming the person's terror, that's amusement for the person's abuser which the Army won't do anything about.  The fact that the behavior is in front of two small children, who are also terrified is not a factor either. This behavior does not meet the criteria for the commission of a crime, according to the Uniform Code of Military Justice, and the Army will take no action.  A two star general will put that in writing... Want to see proof of that?  I have a copy of the letter...



Riddle Me This...

When is a protective order issued by a commander in the United States Army not worth the paper it is printed on???  When it is "rescinded" by the issuing command but the "protected" person is not informed that the "protective order" has been "rescinded."

Thursday, January 30, 2014

I Often Comment on Stars and Stripes, I am Always Completely Honest

Seldom do my remarks get published on Stars and Stripes, or once they are published, remain up on the comments board, even though I am very civil. Stars and Stripes is the official news venue of the U.S. military.  So I am redacting the names of those I directed my comments and arguments at, and conducting an experiment concerning the opinion of those serving in the military, Veterans, and the families of the two aforementioned groups.  Here is the premise:

I believe that the ordinary person serving, or who has served,  in the United States Military,  believes as I do, that abuse of power is rampant in the leadership of our military, and that UCMJ is often nothing more than a kangaroo court.  Further, that as I believe, those serving are completely helpless to do anything about it, because of the threat that speaking truth poses to anyone serving.  So below you will find the commentary I observed and the remarks I made concerning their comments.



















Person #1.  The UCMJ is finally revealed to be as bad as the failed GTMO military commissions. Results-oriented justice; absolutely no pretense at fairness. Any lawyer who participates in courts-martial today should be disbarred as furthering what amount to Stalinesque show trials. "Trust commanders to act impartially and prudently in sexual assault cases, Senator Gillibrand!" "Uhmmm. Wait a second. I guess JFK was right when he said during the naval blockade of Cuba that 'There's always some son-of-a-b*tch who doesn't get the message.'" If this doesn't prove that the UCMJ is a wretched joke, I don't know what does.




Person #2.  You obviously don't understand the UCMJ enough to be making those comments. Of course, the entire system could be wrong and you could be right. But I'll choose the system over you. What are missing is the "results" part. No one has directed a result. That would be unlawful command influence. Instead, what has been directed, for reasons none of us really know, is another investigation into the case. Gen Franklin and his lawyer decided not to go forward. Now another GCMCA will get to look at this. I don't know if this is validation exercise or if this shows no trust in Gen Franklin and his lawyer (who may be the same lawyer from the Aviano case that was dismissed). In any event, you have gone a little extreme in your conclusion of "Stalinesque" show trials. This hasn't even gone to trial - and may never go to trial.



#Me  You don't think that "directed results" prevail every hour of every day within the UCMJ? You don't believe that "unlawful command influence" happens every day? Why don't you get out from behind whatever desk or computer you are sitting behind and go find yourself some ordinary military personnel, and start asking them questions. Until we fix UCMJ and its' "Stalinesque" show trials, our military will not have the leadership it deserves. The visible miscarriages of justice aren't even the most dangerous effects of a broken UCMJ. It is the countless decisions made everyday under the influence of a system where the misuse of power is a constant threat to men and women of honorable character and service, which is the true problem. This isn't a joke, ("different spankings") it isn't the ravings of a lying nut job, (I always ignore all those little jabs, and outright slaps in the face, my life is an open book of long standing, and available to the world,) it is simple truth. Talk to the average service member. One time I pleaded with a retired CSM to report what he knew, knowing him to be such a person of honor. He replied, "Debra, an entire Division knew that was going on, you think any one person is capable of standing up to an entire Division of the United States Army?"
I do not believe anyone within the system can prevail against the current system to affect change. It will take Veterans and their families to set free the honor of the United States Military. It is currently being held hostage by UCMJ.

  • Person #3 Person #1 has been one of the 'UCMJ is broke' folks. You will not convince otherwise.



    • Person #2. Thanks. Maybe he was once on the receiving end of the UCMJ or works for Sen Gillibrand.

      • Me: I take it that either one of those choices in your mind indicates lack of reason? Were you aware that Active Duty Marines threatened to harm Sen Gillibrand? Publicly, by way of facebook, daily for months, they threatened to sexually assault the Senator? Now, what would make anyone intelligent enough to make a Marine, without fear of those actions?
Since I know my remarks will be short lived on Stars and Stripes, I am making my comments on my own blog.

If you do not know, Stars and Stripes is the "official" voice of the military... in other words, under the thumb of present leadership.

So, if you are an ordinary Veteran, family member, or active duty service member, and you agree with me,... or not, I would suggest you find your way to this article and comment as a guest concerning your own observations.

http://www.stripes.com/news/air-force-removes-lt-gen-franklin-from-sexual-assault-case-1.258268#comment-1213661877

I venture they will shut down the comments within an hour if the tide prevails in the wrong direction... but that would be telling as well, would it not?


Sunday, January 12, 2014

The Welfare of Those Serving is Responsibility of Us All

The true problem with all of these miliatary sexual assault cases is about justice as a whole in UCMJ as administered under some of the current leadership. We can't trust everyone at the helm of every ship, and those serving, and their families, have no control over what ship they are put on.  I sincerely believe military justice under UCMJ is the business of every American, and we can demand and get fair and just treatment for all those serving, further, it is our sacred duty to accomplish the same.  



This is a favorite quote of mine, from one of my favorite writers.  

"You never know how much you really believe anything until its truth of falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to YOU. It is easy to say you believe a rope to be strong and sound as long as you are merely using it to cord a box. But suppose you had to hang by that rope over a precipice. Wouldn't you then first discover how much you really trusted it?" C.S. Lewis.

Saturday, January 11, 2014

I Don't Know About the Rest of You...

http://www.stripes.com/report-sexism-part-of-military-academies-culture-1.261301


I don't know about the rest of you, but I will not stand for it.  I am a mother, and we mothers endeavor to instill in our children values, honor, and character.  How dare the military academies fail to uphold our standards.  We do not lend our sons and daughters to the United States Military without the expectation that an even higher standard will be taught and practiced.  I demand that accountability be enforced at the highest levels. If you are in leadership, and incapable of enforcing the standards which are the stated guiding principles of each of the branches of service, you are not the man or woman for the job.  Step aside and allow those who are to lead.  Just because you are selected as a general office, does not mean you have the skills, character, and devotion to sacred duty to be a general officer, as so many have recently proven.


I watch those commercials on television where you use parents interacting with their sons and daughters, every insinuation, every direct message, every nuance of language indicates you will promote and permit only honorable behavior among the troops.  However, recent courts martials indicate that while leadership seems to now be returning to promoting honor by enforcing accountability, there has been a period of overall failure of Army leadership.




Once again the headlines indicate not all is right, and in the highest institutions of leadership training.  How possibly can those of the youngest coming into military service be expected to serve honorably in all they do, if you are allowing their future leaders to be influenced and trained by leadership which cannot within the restrictive environment of the service academies control this particular neglect of honor?  Who is at the wheel?  What about their own lives, skills, and character allows this? Is it that even though you preach something different, you do not believe overall honor to be an achievable goal among the recruits of West Point, therefore it falls from the focus of your mission?  I know many graduates of West Point, and I am here to tell you devotion to sacred duty and honor is achievable.  There are graduates from decades ago, when popular thinking was against women in the military, who easily embrace and practice equal respect for all serving in our military, and they are skilled enough in leadership, that they can and do enforce it among those they lead.



Sunday, December 15, 2013

Do You Hear What I Hear?

As I have written before, I have a friend named Gary who was a Marine, and whose only daughter desired to follow in her father's footsteps, and joined the Marine Corp.  During her time of service, she met with a terrible and tragic event, she was beaten and raped.  That wasn't the destroying blow, the destroying blow came when neither her command, NCIS, the Navy, or the DoD responded to the wrongs done her, and reacted so as to arrest, convict, and punish those responsible, and those who covered up the crimes.  She was thrown out of the Marines, and told basically to go home and shut up.  Just a few weeks later she took her own life.

Her father grieves everyday over this loss, and the injustices done to his only daughter; the upcoming holiday season is going to be very difficult for he and his wife.  He posted on facebook the wretchedness of his heart, and how he hears his beloved daughter screaming from her grave for justice.  Since I first heard the story of her short life, and saw pictures of her, I have heard Carri's voice too...  I have written poetry in her honor, blog posts telling her story and honoring her, but by far the action that I have been called to in her name that was the loudest constraints of her voice to me, was only sweet whispers calling me to love, to give, and to listen and understand.  I wrote the following to Gary, and I have a picture for him to cherish.  The following is the post I wrote to Gary after reading his post of anguish and pain.

"You know, her voice is being heard Gary. I heard it so plainly. There is a woman living in my home now, along with her 17 year old autistic daughter. She is a veteran, and a victim of MST who has struggled for years, and found herself homeless in Houston. Because of the story of your daughter, when I came to know of this situation, God used the voice of your daughter to speak to my heart of my own responsibility toward this woman and her child. That is the story and the true meaning of Christmas. We celebrate a woman bringing a child into the world. A child who was to pour Himself out a living sacrifice to the whole world,and whose life here on earth was the very message of God's great love to each of us. There was no room for a woman and her child at the Inn so many centuries ago, but because of the story of your daughter, there was room at our house for this woman and her child. Her daughter sat with us in church today, and enjoyed so much the story of Christmas, the music, and the love expressed to her, expressed to her because of the what the life of your daughter has spoken to my heart. Carrie doesn't scream loudly for justice to me, she whispers quietly for love and understanding... I hear her all the time."

Gary, here is the picture I have for you.  This is Alisha, sitting by our Christmas tree, she is very excited for Christmas to come, she loves Christmas.  If it were not for Carrie's whispers in my ear, she would be homeless this Christmas, living in a shelter in downtown Houston.  I am wrapping presents for her, and putting them under the tree, but one I haven't gotten yet.  In one of the many places she has lived over the past several years, she lost a stuffed bear from the "Build a Bear" toy store.  It was a kitten dressed in pink, and when Pickle, as she is affectionately called by her mom, whose name is also Alisha, saw the Build a Bears I was wrapping for my grand-children, she kept picking them up.  She kept asking me who they were for, and telling me repeatedly she had a Build a Bear kitten, but she lost it, and she had loved it so much.  She told me she still, "misses that bear so much".  

Alisha still believes in Santa Claus, her development is delayed in some ways, and she is such an innocent and guileless person.  She asked me if Santa knew where our house was as she watched the cartoon special the other night of Rudolph  the Red-nosed Reindeer.   I told certainly he did, she then asked if we would leave the door unlocked for him, I told her, "oh no, he will just have to come down the chimney."  She hadn't noticed our fireplace yet, as she has only lived here a short while... her face lit up, her eyes sparkled, and she said "that is wonderful, now I know Santa can get that little bear here I want!"  

I have a question for you Gary and Jiliene.  What is Carri whispering to you about that bear and Alisha... I hear you can not only buy pink clothes for a kitten Build a Bear, but you can also buy a Marine uniform for one...  I have told her if Santa brings her a Build a Bear I am certain  she should name it Carri, Alisha loved that name...  All you need to do is tell Santa that bear should go to Alisha, in care of Debra LeCompte,  3296 South FM331 Rd, Sealy, Texas, 77474.  Merry Christmas Carri, you too Gary and Jilene. 

 

Monday, November 11, 2013

They Trusted the Rope


One of my favorite authors is C.S. Lewis, from wisdom born of his own life challenges he made observations which revealed profound truths.  Here is one of my favorite quotes from Mr. Lewis:

“You never know how much you really believe anything until its truth of falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to you. It is easy to say you believe a rope to be strong and sound as long as you are merely using it to cord a box. But suppose you had to hang by that rope over a precipice. Wouldn't you then first discover how much you really trusted it?  C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed

It is Veteran's Day, and across the nation we pause to honor those who have served, as well as those still serving.  I become so emotional, part of it is the recognition of what has been given,   The remarkable service and sacrifice of so many courageous and honorable men and women, and their families as well, profoundly moves me.  I hear the stories of those who are awarded the medals for acts of valor, and other high profile service accomplishments of duty and honor, and I always feel humbled by their accomplishments.  I know so many other stories of acts of courage as well, many shared with very few people, for true Soldiers never seek glory for themselves, and most of them accepting those medals are uncomfortable at the recognition. 

What causes a desperate desire in me to speak out to the world is the unacceptable numbers of cases in our military, where service persons have been raped or experienced some form of Military Sexual Trauma at the hands of those serving beside them.  Then they have been betrayed by the leadership they have followed without question when a blind eye is turned concerning the crimes committed against them.  There are as well other injustices, committed against our military service men and women, some actually perpetrated by their leadership, which go unpunished as the rights of our constitution are denied them.

"I was proud of my military service at one point, but after being betrayed by Chain of command, NCIS, and the Senate. I came to a conclusion that I did not want any thing to do with an organization and government that supported rape, allowed it to continue, and did nothing to stop it. So in a statement, I sent my service medals back. Hoping that my message would be received loud and clear. I am dedicated to doing everything I can to stop rape. Rape is not about sex. It is about power and control." 

Those are the words of a Veteran with a broken heart and spirit, a young woman of courage and honor, named Julie Smoot, spoken and acted upon with the defeat of legislation aimed at removing chain of command from the reporting of and action on cases of sexual assault. This action occurred this summer in July. It was guaranteed by that decision that the status quo will remain. For 20 years the Chain of Command has been promising to "fix" this problem, and every year the numbers of assaults climb. It is quite obvious that the Chain of Command is incapable, or unwilling to do anything about this problem.



This Associated Press photo is of the men and women who testified before Congress vowing once again that if only they were given the opportunity, things would change.  They told of all their wonderful programs, such as handing out hand sanitizers with a message printed on them advising that rape is not acceptable. That whole idea reminds me of Pontius Pilate, washing his hands before the people who were demanding the crucifixion of Jesus.  I would like to provide them hand sanitizer with the following message.

 "The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is the same problem you had last year."  John Foster Dulles, Former Secretary of State


When a woman returns her service medals, because she has been raped, I see the message of her heart.  The failure of the Chain of Command, NCIS, the Department of Defense, and her government is self explanatory.  Those with the authority and power to do so have refused to take the steps necessary to not only curb sexual assault in the military, prosecute, convict, and punish the guilty, but also they have failed to courts martial those commanders, and other individuals,  found to have turned a blind eye.  Those who have covered up wrong doing, defiled the UCMJ and the honor of the military, not only commit  a crime, and betray a service member, but cause to stand among the guilty, every citizen of this country, as long as we allow their lack of honorable action.  Our country will only know as much justice as we demand.  We can never leave the administration of justice unmonitored in the hands of a few, too much lies at risk in complacency. When we the people, decide as a country that we will not tolerate sexual assault in the military, things will change.  Would anyone have the courage to say to Julie Smoot, "thank you for your service?"  Those words would only wound her.  Her service, she feels, has been  disgraced by the actions and crimes of others.

When we allow this behavior to continue by our lack of heeding the call to action, we not only give the nod to rape, but crime, abuse of power, fraud, waste, and abuse in every area of government as well.  Those who perpetrate these crimes begin to consider themselves untouchable, and as junior officers watch this behavior, those of honor tend to leave the ranks, considering that honor is not to be found in leadership, and those who demand honor will stand at risk of retaliation.  Not only that, but those junior officers who would follow the way of the dishonorable, observe as well, and come to understand all the nuances of  how to go along to get along, and the corruption multiples exponentially. Those who would dare stand against corruption are faced with united efforts by those in charge, to cover up corruption, and in fact, stand in danger of having their own careers destroyed with false allegations, and trumped up charges. Once again when this happens, wrong doing is to be reported to the chain of command, and when it is the chain of command that is perpetrating the abuse of power, chances are, the reports will be filed away, and never even looked at.  Six years ago, my husband stumbled upon an issue of corruption.  He made an IG report, attempted many times to follow up on it.  Just a few months ago, he received a letter from an entirely different person than originally received his complaint, and I swear, it stated these exact words:  "We have done a through preliminary investigation, and will take no further action in this matter."  

There existed for a very long time, a pocket of corruption in a Division of the Army Reserves, which is no longer in existence, and the stories, and the details I could relay concerning many of those stories, would shame the Army Reserves, the Army, the DoD, and this country before the entire world.  When military sexual trauma is allowed to run rampant among our military, our position in the world as an authority in areas such as human rights, liberty, and the right to the pursuit of happiness and security, is at grave risk.  Any abuse of power in the military is a very real threat to us all.  We embolden our enemies, and shame our country and its' military when we the people refuse to take the responsibility into our own hands. 

But what about those who served like Julie Smoot, who returned her medals in heartbreak to the government who gave them?  How would you thank her for her service on Veteran's Day? Perhaps, moved to action of remembrance and honor yourself, you would like to sign a petition on the behalf of those who have endured the unthinkable.  Here is an opportunity and a link for you to perform a small act of remembrance, and perhaps you will pass on this story of a Service Member betrayed by the enemy within, and I urge those you pass it to, and to sign the petition as well.  Send a message with meaning to Julie Smoot, sign the petition, send this story and the link to every patriotic American you know.  Tell Julie by your actions, "thank you for your service."





Saturday, June 15, 2013

The Predators Are Out

Found this sneaky thing lurking in the corner of the duck pen!

Evidently he had visited the pond first and ate one of my bull frogs!

He won't be eating anymore!


This squirrel was carefully observing the photographing of the snake, which for those of you who do not recognize him right off the bat,  is a cotton mouth water moccasin. They are an aggressive snake, and the only good one is a dead one.  The squirrel wasn't quite sure it was dead, and kept chattering at me as if to say, you better stay away from that thing. 

It is a good idea to stay away from snakes when you can, but if they are wanting to live among you... well, it is just best to take them out.   Otherwise you might step on them in the night...

Squirrels may gossip about snakes, their bad habits and actions, but somebody has to take them out, whether they are dangerous or not. 

 
 

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

I Saw Sad Eyes


 
  




I Saw the Sad Eyes 




I saw the sad eyes of women who had been betrayed,


By those who from honor should never have strayed.

They could not have known what would come to them,
      Integrity was pledged and they believed without a whim.

In a dark hour their faith and loyalty was shattered. 
Their lives, without regard, left broken and tattered.




Time seemed strangled and unable their injuries to mend.


To go on with life seemed to have nowhere to begin.





Then in chorus the sad eyes look around in panic and pain,
In a moment they knew other eyes revealed the same stain.






                                                                                                                                             
 Hearts united and power and change came with more ease,      
 The weakest were lifted first by the women from their knees.







Words and tears were shared and brought balm to their soul wounds.


Slowly in unity they overcame, and the living of lives resumed.





 I saw the sad eyes of women who had been betrayed. 
By those who from honor should  never have strayed.